1. 研究目的与意义（文献综述）

everythingi never told you, written by celeste ng, is thebestseller of the new york times of 2014, which describes identitycrisis, life achievement, race, gender, family and personal path. it explores the divisions between cultures and the rifts within afamily, and uncovers the ways in which mothers and daughters, fathers and sons,and husbands and wives struggle, all their lives, to understand one another.“lydia is dead. but they don’t know this yet.” this is the beginning of thisbook. so it makes people wonder that how she died, and why she died. and thisis what kind of family which still didn’t know that their favorite child isdead. and these are the questions that this paper wants to make clear.therefore, this paper will discuss the reasons that directly or indirectlycause lydia’s death from the perspective of family education, parents’relationship, parents’ equal love, and family background. because these factorshave very important impacts on children’s growth and development. something bador regretful will happen if any of these go wrong. in addition, wife andhusband should respect each other and reach a common understanding of theissues of education. what’s more, the government has decided to relax its rigidfamily planning policy from 2013. some families have one child and more. so it’sa new task for these families to love each child equally rather than doting onthe new child. preferring one child would produce something bad to the other.

in the course of paper preparation, along time of data collection will be done for the topic of this paper whichinvolves chinese and foreign works, network periodicals and other forms ofinformation. as far as the information collected is concerned, the study on everything i never told you is a veryfew in both chinese and foreign jurisprudence circles. there are some bookreviews and praises of the novel abroad. in home, the research on the novel hasbeen increased in the last two years. a literature review is also put forward here about theresearch of the novel.

at first, in 2015, the study on everything i never told you discussesthe transmigration of fate between parents and children, taking marilyn and hermother, marilyn and her daughter for examples. these two pairs of mother anddaughter have the same ending that the two daughters couldn't achieveself-worth, and they betrayed their mothers and themselves; the two motherslost their favorite daughters forever, although they have different lifeattitudes.

2. 研究的基本内容与方案

methods will be taken in this papergoing as follows: library or secondary research, case study, descriptiveresearch and experience summary. the steps of analyses are searching theinformation, sorting out materials, drafting the outline, writing the paper, amendingthe paper, and finishing the paper

the first part, it is the introductionof this novel and the general ideas of the analysis of this novel at home andabroad. the main part of the paper is to analyze the causes of lydia's tragedyin everything i never told you fromthe perspective of family education. this part will be divided into three parts.the first part is the impact of parents' expectations on children, taking lydiafor example; the second part is the impact of exposure to the domestic quarrelsand violence on children, taking lydia for example; the third part is the impactof differences of parents’ education ideas on children, taking lydia forexample;

a conclusion will be made in the finalpart, which will restate the importance of a good family education tochildren's growth and character shaping.

3. 研究计划与安排

before 1st january : settlement of the title

before 1stmarch: submission of the outline

before 15thapril : submission of the first draft

4. 参考文献（12篇以上）